Same Sex Divorce in Maryland

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Basically, divorce in Maryland for same sex couples follows the same rules, procedures and guidelines as for opposite sex couples. However, there are some nuances. For example, there has been some legal question about how same sex divorce would apply where the marriage was formed prior to the nation-wide legalization of same sex marriage. But, it appears that Maryland courts have resolved that legal issue by permitting same sex divorce regardless of when and how the marriage or marriage-like union was created. See, for example, Sherman v. Rouse, 225 A. 3d 490 (Md. Court of Special Appeals 2020) where a Maryland divorce was allowed dissolving a 2003 Vermont same sex civil union.

Below is a brief explanation of Maryland divorce law basics and how it applies to same sex marriages.

Maryland divorce basics – types of divorce and grounds

In Maryland, same sex couples can file for a “limited divorce” or an “absolute divorce.” A “limited divorce” can be thought of as a “separation” where the couple remains legally married, but live apart. Maryland divorce courts will consider and resolve “typical” divorce issues in a limited divorce – such as child and spousal support – but will not engage in any sort of property division. A limited divorce might be the best option for a spouse facing dangers to health, emotional well being, personal safety or for other reasons. Sometimes a limited divorce is obtained as a precursor to obtaining an absolute divorce.

An “absolute divorce” is a dissolution that completely ends the marriage. With respect to absolute divorces, there are three  types: “fault,” “no-fault” and divorce by mutual consent. To obtain a “no-fault” divorce, the couple must have continually lived apart for at least twelve months. By contrast, a “fault” divorce can be filed at any time irrespective of whether the couple has lived apart or separately. But, to obtain a “fault” divorce, the party seeking the divorce must prove one of the “fault” grounds. In Maryland, the grounds for “fault” divorce are these:

  • Cruel or vicious treatment – physical or mental abuse toward the spouse or children
  • Desertion – abandonment
  • Incarceration – spouse sentenced for at least three years; non-incarcerated spouse can seek a “fault” divorce after the first twelve months of the sentence
  • Insanity – spouse must have been confined to a mental health facility for at least three years prior to filing for divorce

Divorce by mutual consent is essentially a “no-fault” divorce where the 12-month waiting period is eliminated if the spouses are in complete agreement and certain other conditions apply (such as there are no minor children involved).

Spousal support and property division

When a Maryland same sex divorce is granted, the court will issue an order with respect to spousal support (sometimes called “alimony”) and division of marital property. If the couple can agree on spousal support and property division, then the court will generally enter an order consistent with the couple’s agreement. There is no reason to think that Maryland courts will analyze support and property divisions any differently for same sex couples than for opposite sex couples.

Child custody

With any divorce, if there are minor children in the family, then the Judgment of Dissolution issued by the court will resolve all issues with respect to child custody and support. This is one area where same sex couples may experience additional challenges when seeking a divorce. Maryland courts now use a de facto parent test when evaluating whether a non-biological, non-adoptive partner can be awarded custody and visitation rights in a same sex divorce. See Conover v. Conover, 450 Md. 51 (2016). This is a positive for parents in same sex marriages, but it does involve a layer of legal complication and a finding that the non-biological, non-adoptive partner has been a de facto parent is not automatic.

Maryland and D.C. Same Sex Divorce Attorneys

For more information, contact the seasoned and experienced Maryland family law attorneys at The Law Offices of Thomas Stahl. We have the experience and expertise you need. Schedule a consultation today or call us at (410) 696-4326 or (202) 964-7280.

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